How does one succeed in life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I navigate a romantic relationship as a trans person, and what are some common challenges that I might face?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Has anyone been spanked by their parents after becoming an adult?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can you recommend a simple song with an awesome solo? What makes the solo stand out?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why are US customs agents so talkative? I cringed hard when a US customs agent asked me if I was on vacation. He doesn’t need to know why I went to another country as long as I am a U.S. citizen.

What I need from you?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

My boyfriend won’t tell me his past and it hurts me so I broke up with him what do I do?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

If you could instantly cancel one social norm, what would it be?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How many women have accidentally pooped their pants and became turned on afterwards?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Ask yourself:

Why cant I breathe when I sleep on my back, I can breathe if im on my side or stomach but I feel uncomfortable since either my neck is twisted or my back is in pain, im physically healthy and my surroundings are clean so whats the problem?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What shouldn't you Google?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What are some good inspirational movies?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Is Melania still angry that she failed as a model? Why is she so cold and hostile? Why did she blame everyone for her actions in her trite book?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

That's it for today.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Making more friends is a goal.